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Angie Hartwell's avatar

Loved this post. I’d ‘heart’ it again if I could. Your journey from grief brain to sustainable creative empire? That's not just inspiring, that's revolutionary.

I took your quiz and landed squarely in "Direct Author" territory, but reading this made me realize we're both building the same thing: freedom to create without burning ourselves to the ground.

Your Pinterest strategy pulling 2.7 million impressions while you rest? Chef's kiss. That's not just smart business—that's creative self-preservation mastery. You've cracked the code on making storyselling serve storytelling instead of the other way around.

What hit me hardest was this: “I needed an author model that worked with grief brain, not against it.” Because honestly? Don't we all have seasons where our brains just... can't do what they used to? Whether it's grief, burnout, life chaos, the state of our world, or just Wednesday.

You've proven that our author models aren't boxes—they're launching pads. Different paths, same rebellion against the hustle-till-you-collapse narrative.

Question: How do you balance that beautiful “quiet building” energy with moments when you DO want to connect directly with readers? I'm fascinated by how different models handle the intimacy-vs-sustainability dance.

Thank you for sharing this so vulnerably. Your quiet empire is already inspiring other rebels to find their own creative freedom.

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A. P. Soto's avatar

Hi, Alicia, first of all, sorry for your loss. I can't imagine what that means, even less for a mother.

You have finally convinced me about me being an e-commerce author.

Too introverted to "sell"

It's a check if I don't believe in what I sell. That includes myself. I worked for two decades as a very successful and trustworthy export manager (that's selling, after all), but I didn't believe in myself. That's why I struggle to be active in social networks; besides, I don't believe much in them either. Following this path I can see myself believing in myself as an author, on the contrary.

Too steady for fast-paced launch culture

Big check

Too systems-minded to fit in traditional writing spaces

Check. I prefer to write and make slowly my own way, rather than fighting a hard fight that is for most of us lost before even getting started. I prefer to build my little path my own way, target than playing lottery.

Too depleted to hustle your way to success...

Another perspective: rather than exposing myself and my writing big way and chasing a rat race, I prefer less exposure and experiment with my writing, while having a lot of fun.

Yes, I will try to do experimental things for fun, and share them with no pressure at all. Maybe not looking for the urgent constant pubic exposure, and let them be discovered instead, but not hiding them either.

Just organic growth. I will keep following your advice.

Antonio

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